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Divorce and Waiting Period
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⚠Divorce Given in Anger⚠
Remember that Satan uses the help of anger in order to create friction, arguments and divisions. He kindles the fire and the argument starts. As the fire rages the argument gets worse. Regardless of whether the woman asks for a divorce or not, the man says the word ‘Divorce.’ As soon as their anger subsides, they both realize what they have done and go running to Scholars (Muftis) in order to find a solution. They think that because the divorce was given in anger it is not valid. If they thought about it for a moment they would realize how illogical and stupid their thinking is. No one stabs or shoots a person with love. When anger and hatred reaches its height the weapon is fired. Regardless of whether a bullet is fired with love, happiness or anger, it will always do what it is designed to do and that is to kill. Divorce is like a bullet to the relationship of marriage and regardless of how it is fired, it will take the life of this relationship. Anger is ignited, the bullet is fired and the relationship is destroyed. If only one or two bullets would be fired there would be some room to fix the wound and bring the relationship back to health.
However, Satan is a very cruel enemy and always makes sure that all three bullets are fired in order to take the life of both the husband and wife. The Scholars now do not have any medicine with which to give life back and even if they do have the medicine, it is so bitter that no self respecting person is willing to drink it. This is why the Shariah has made anger unlawful and why RasoolAllah ordered us to stay away from anger in order to safeguard ourselves from its damaging effects.
Hazrat Abu Hurairah narrates that on one occasion RasoolAllah said repeatedly, “Do not become angry, do not become angry.” Then he added, “A strong person is not the person who throws his opponent to the ground. A strong person is the person who contains himself when he is angry.” How weak is that person whose fiery anger set fire to his house and he is unable to put out the fire. Regardless of this, if a person gives divorce in anger the divorce is valid and applies.
Along with many comforting gifts, Marriage (Nikah) also gives a man a very destructive weapon. A wise person is he who makes use of the comforting gifts in order to make his life restful, pleasing and secure and puts the destructive weapon in a corner of the house and forgets about it.
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🌙SAHIH DEEN صحيح دين🌙
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Divorce and Waiting Period
Post 010
⚠Divorce Given in Anger⚠
Remember that Satan uses the help of anger in order to create friction, arguments and divisions. He kindles the fire and the argument starts. As the fire rages the argument gets worse. Regardless of whether the woman asks for a divorce or not, the man says the word ‘Divorce.’ As soon as their anger subsides, they both realize what they have done and go running to Scholars (Muftis) in order to find a solution. They think that because the divorce was given in anger it is not valid. If they thought about it for a moment they would realize how illogical and stupid their thinking is. No one stabs or shoots a person with love. When anger and hatred reaches its height the weapon is fired. Regardless of whether a bullet is fired with love, happiness or anger, it will always do what it is designed to do and that is to kill. Divorce is like a bullet to the relationship of marriage and regardless of how it is fired, it will take the life of this relationship. Anger is ignited, the bullet is fired and the relationship is destroyed. If only one or two bullets would be fired there would be some room to fix the wound and bring the relationship back to health.
However, Satan is a very cruel enemy and always makes sure that all three bullets are fired in order to take the life of both the husband and wife. The Scholars now do not have any medicine with which to give life back and even if they do have the medicine, it is so bitter that no self respecting person is willing to drink it. This is why the Shariah has made anger unlawful and why RasoolAllah ordered us to stay away from anger in order to safeguard ourselves from its damaging effects.
Hazrat Abu Hurairah narrates that on one occasion RasoolAllah said repeatedly, “Do not become angry, do not become angry.” Then he added, “A strong person is not the person who throws his opponent to the ground. A strong person is the person who contains himself when he is angry.” How weak is that person whose fiery anger set fire to his house and he is unable to put out the fire. Regardless of this, if a person gives divorce in anger the divorce is valid and applies.
Along with many comforting gifts, Marriage (Nikah) also gives a man a very destructive weapon. A wise person is he who makes use of the comforting gifts in order to make his life restful, pleasing and secure and puts the destructive weapon in a corner of the house and forgets about it.
🌹🌹🌹
🌙SAHIH DEEN صحيح دين🌙
👑Sufyan 📲+918460300402
