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Divorce and Waiting Period
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📝Qur’anic Code for Keeping Relationships Intact - 02📝
(...Continued from Yesterday)
This means that if you are completely certain of their disobedience then do not lose control or your temper, but rather first calmly explain things to them. If this does not work then do not spend the nights with them and do not talk about love and sexual relations with them. The woman who has some virtue and nobility in her will undoubtedly reform herself at this stage.
However, if this does not work either then you can beat her but the beating should be light and should not be hard enough that it would leave marks or bruises on her body. There is further clarification on this from Hazrat Ibne Abbas who narrates that if the situation is such that you must beat her then beat her with a Miswak or similar light thing. Nowadays, many ignorant people beat their wives like animals; Islam does not give any such permission whatsoever. If a woman stops her defiance and becomes obedient to her husband then it is essential for him to stop being oppressive and treat her with love and respect. This is the order of the Lord Who is the Greatest of all and the results of turning away from His orders are extremely dangerous.
However, if their efforts are not successful and it seems like the situation will only end in divorce then the husband and wife or their families should choose two people to listen to both their grievances and help them find a solution. If the dispute goes to court then the judge should not hastily dissolve the marriage. Rather he should use his authority to order them to try and find a solution. If the arbitrators and judges guide them sincerely then the guidance of Allah Ta’ala will undoubtedly be with them. According to some commentators the words ‘if these two wish reconciliation’ means that if the husband and wife desire reconciliation sincerely then Allah Ta’ala will create the means for them to be reconciled.’
(Tafseer Zia-ul-Qur’an: Vol 1, Pages 342-343)
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Divorce and Waiting Period
Post 006
📝Qur’anic Code for Keeping Relationships Intact - 02📝
(...Continued from Yesterday)
This means that if you are completely certain of their disobedience then do not lose control or your temper, but rather first calmly explain things to them. If this does not work then do not spend the nights with them and do not talk about love and sexual relations with them. The woman who has some virtue and nobility in her will undoubtedly reform herself at this stage.
However, if this does not work either then you can beat her but the beating should be light and should not be hard enough that it would leave marks or bruises on her body. There is further clarification on this from Hazrat Ibne Abbas who narrates that if the situation is such that you must beat her then beat her with a Miswak or similar light thing. Nowadays, many ignorant people beat their wives like animals; Islam does not give any such permission whatsoever. If a woman stops her defiance and becomes obedient to her husband then it is essential for him to stop being oppressive and treat her with love and respect. This is the order of the Lord Who is the Greatest of all and the results of turning away from His orders are extremely dangerous.
However, if their efforts are not successful and it seems like the situation will only end in divorce then the husband and wife or their families should choose two people to listen to both their grievances and help them find a solution. If the dispute goes to court then the judge should not hastily dissolve the marriage. Rather he should use his authority to order them to try and find a solution. If the arbitrators and judges guide them sincerely then the guidance of Allah Ta’ala will undoubtedly be with them. According to some commentators the words ‘if these two wish reconciliation’ means that if the husband and wife desire reconciliation sincerely then Allah Ta’ala will create the means for them to be reconciled.’
(Tafseer Zia-ul-Qur’an: Vol 1, Pages 342-343)
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