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Divorce and Waiting Period
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👎🏽Divorce and Khula are Disliked👎🏽
Hazrat Thaubaan narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The fragrance of Paradise is unlawful on the woman who seeks divorce from her husband without extreme necessity.”
(Ibne Majah)
Hazrat Ibne Umar narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The most disliked lawful deed in the Sight of Allah is divorce.”
(Abu Dawood)
Hazrat Abu Hurairah narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The women who seek freedom from marriage and seek Khula are hypocrites.”
(Nisaa’i)
This means that the women who grieve their husbands in order that they will be pressured into divorcing them or seek Khula (divorce obtained on the wife’s initiative) are hypocrites because they appear to love their husbands, but in reality they have hatred for them in their hearts and seek freedom from them.
These Hadith clearly show how disliked and despised Divorce and Khula are to Rasool'Allah and the reason he is making apparent his intense dislike is so that his followers will try everything possible in order to avoid divorce. In short, divorce is lawful but is extremely disliked by Allah Ta’ala and His Beloved Prophet and worthy of wrath and anger. Therefore both men and women should attempt to stay out of the target of this wrath and should try and spend their lives as each other’s coverings and lead a happy, peaceful life.
Especially once Allah Ta’ala has also granted you children because after children are born the parent’s lives are not for themselves, they are for training and guiding their children. Whenever a man or a woman thinks about separation they should look at their beautiful children and think that if we separate how will these children receive our joint love. The peace and successful training and guidance of children depends wholly on receiving joint love from their parents. If children are denied this joint love, then regardless of having enormous wealth, this lack of love cannot be compensated for by either the father or mother alone. If this consideration is kept at the forefront then the thought of divorce will not enter the mind, the home can be saved and the children’s future will not be ruined. Examine closely what the Beloved Prophet is telling us.
🌹🌹🌹
🌙SAHIH DEEN صحيح دين🌙
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Divorce and Waiting Period
Post 008
👎🏽Divorce and Khula are Disliked👎🏽
Hazrat Thaubaan narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The fragrance of Paradise is unlawful on the woman who seeks divorce from her husband without extreme necessity.”
(Ibne Majah)
Hazrat Ibne Umar narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The most disliked lawful deed in the Sight of Allah is divorce.”
(Abu Dawood)
Hazrat Abu Hurairah narrates that RasoolAllah said:
“The women who seek freedom from marriage and seek Khula are hypocrites.”
(Nisaa’i)
This means that the women who grieve their husbands in order that they will be pressured into divorcing them or seek Khula (divorce obtained on the wife’s initiative) are hypocrites because they appear to love their husbands, but in reality they have hatred for them in their hearts and seek freedom from them.
These Hadith clearly show how disliked and despised Divorce and Khula are to Rasool'Allah and the reason he is making apparent his intense dislike is so that his followers will try everything possible in order to avoid divorce. In short, divorce is lawful but is extremely disliked by Allah Ta’ala and His Beloved Prophet and worthy of wrath and anger. Therefore both men and women should attempt to stay out of the target of this wrath and should try and spend their lives as each other’s coverings and lead a happy, peaceful life.
Especially once Allah Ta’ala has also granted you children because after children are born the parent’s lives are not for themselves, they are for training and guiding their children. Whenever a man or a woman thinks about separation they should look at their beautiful children and think that if we separate how will these children receive our joint love. The peace and successful training and guidance of children depends wholly on receiving joint love from their parents. If children are denied this joint love, then regardless of having enormous wealth, this lack of love cannot be compensated for by either the father or mother alone. If this consideration is kept at the forefront then the thought of divorce will not enter the mind, the home can be saved and the children’s future will not be ruined. Examine closely what the Beloved Prophet is telling us.
🌹🌹🌹
🌙SAHIH DEEN صحيح دين🌙
👑Sufyan 📲+918460300402
